There was an old lady who swallowed a fly.
I don’t know why she swallowed a fly.
Do you watch the popular personal-finance personalities on television (or listen to them on the radio)?
I watch and listen to a fair number, though on a somewhat irregular basis. For lots of them, I find that I’m learning less and less, as many of the basic principles are repeated. But sometimes, I feel I should keep up with them as part of the decision to write a blog like this one. And sometimes, it feels like the same fascination as watching a train-wreck of a performance on a game show or on reality TV. I don’t want to watch, but I can’t turn away.
The other night on the Suze Orman Show, a woman named Barbara called in—and for the first minute or so, I thought she might be a candidate to discuss as part of our Success Stories series on this blog. Here are some of her personal-finance stats:
- Age 49
- $1200/Mo. Take Home
- $715/Mo. Rent
- $428K Savings
- $270K Retirement
That’s pretty frigging good, if you ask me!
Then she revealed that she had $18,000 in credit-card debt. When asked why she hadn’t paid it down, she had no real answer. She certainly didn’t present the case that she had a 0% or low-interest rate (let alone some intentional though potentially risky strategy like credit-card arbitrage). She just had no answer.
She had $428,000 sitting in a bank account—not in a retirement account, not invested in a brokerage account, not in some other illiquid asset. $428,000 cash. If she paid off her $18,000 in credit-card debt, she’d still have $410,000 cash!
This was a woman who was doing so many things right, who might otherwise be a personal-finance superstar. Maybe she just came into a windfall along the way, but that doesn’t seem likely to me, because of the high amounts in retirement accounts (and the maximum annual contributions making it more likely she accumulated that over time). So probably, she was spending way less than she earned—and at such a low salary, was essentially a Jedi master of frugality. Many might say that she should be investing more of her $428,000 rather than leaving it in cash—but she had at least also been investing through her retirement accounts and had $270,000 in investments there.
But her credit-card debt ruined the entire picture—and gave the feel that she really had no idea what she was doing. It sort of injected some doubt as to whether this woman would be ultimately successful with her personal finances.
This woman may be an extreme example, but to me, she sort of embodies the difficulties of personal finance for many of us in two ways.
First, lots of us probably also do things with our personal finance—or fail to do things with our personal finance—even though we know better and have no particular explanation for our behavior. (Or if we have some explanation, it’s fairly weak.) I know I have things like that.
Second, we can’t do just one or two things in our personal finance and ignore the rest. For many of us, that especially means going outside our comfort zone. If we’re good at being frugal, and we enjoy thinking about ways to be frugal, we can’t then ignore our incomes. Personal finance is a total picture.
Do you have things like this—things you do or don’t do for which you don’t have much explanation or things that you tend to ignore or put off because they are outside your comfort zone?
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Some people feel as long as their making "payments" their doing fine.
It can be hard to sit down and write out a check for 5 figures!!!
As u said maybe it's a comfort zone thing!
Maybe she didn't really save all that money herself and is just a financial idiot because I can't see how she can save ANY money with her salary and expenses. Did Suze tell her to pay off the credit cards?
yeah, makes you wonder if she didn't just inherit the money or something.. If not, that's a pretty silly thing to do - not pay it off. And she should be investing that money!!
Thanks for the comments, everyone!
I had the same thought about whether she just came into a windfall -- but the amount she has her retirement accounts made me think she had done quite a bit from saving the money herself. I'm not super knowledgeable about it, but I would think the maximum annual contributions would mean she couldn't use a windfall to get to that listed amount in retirement accounts, meaning she would have had to contribute it little by little, year by year.
She came on the portion of Suze's show called, "Can I Afford It?" I can't remember what she was asking if she could afford (what she was seeking to buy) -- but Suze was about to say yes easily, until she found out about the credit card debt. Then she changed her decision to "Denied!"
That's an awful lot of money for someone making so little. It almost makes me wonder if she inherited some of that cash.
Anyways, I don't get why she wouldn't pay it off, it doesn't make sense at all to me. Maybe she was just lying to the radio host to sound more important than what she really was.
Two words - divorce settlement. Sounds like someone who has been out of the workforce for a long time, hence the under-earning. And retirement account balances accrued over the marriage would have been divided in half.
that is a pretty strange story. I'd have to watch the woman myself to know what to really think.
my blindspots? well, I think I make somewhat the same mistake. I don't follow the strict "Logical" order of paying credit off first, then doing investments. If I always did that, with my sporadic income, I'd never have any investments, and it would just go on like that forever. I do pay them off, of course - I just like to think I do it strategically; time it, etc.
It doesn't surprise me. There are many people who have run up much bigge credit card debt and freely admit they have no hope of ever paying it off. Some even say they stopped making the minimum payments anyway.
IMO, that's THEFT. And it's happening more and more.
Bring back Debtors Prison. I'm serious.
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